
Preferences
Must-Haves and Nice-to-Haves: Making a Preference List Work
A must-haves and nice-to-haves list can clarify what matters in a partner while leaving room for a real person to…
Sort firm priorities from flexible hopes without turning a person into a checklist.

A must-haves and nice-to-haves list can clarify what matters in a partner while leaving room for a real person to…
The language of compatibility can help people start a conversation, but it cannot tell the whole story. We look at the ideas and choices behind matchmaking, with room for nuance and individual difference.